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Beach Bum Scott Tiki Socialite
Joined: Oct 28, 2008 Posts: 304 From: The Ranch in CO
| Posted: 2010-08-04 11:15 am  Permalink
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On 2010-08-03 22:56, bigbrotiki wrote:
There was nothing un-nice in Boris' first post, it reads rather matter of fact to me. It is the bane of the internet that everybody takes everything so friggin' personal that nobody dares to say ANYTHING anymore, and everything passes as OK. Vapid.
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I will agree that the web has made it hard to convey intent sometimes, but tact and decorum can still be used.
WWEPD?
 
 
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JOHN-O Grand Member (first year)
Joined: May 16, 2008 Posts: 2454 From: Dogtown, USA
| Posted: 2010-08-04 12:03 pm  Permalink
Hey it's fun to be "bustin' balls" on Tiki Central. Isn't that pretty Tiki in spirit ?? If you want "Aloha" move to Hawaii.
Actually I ran into Boris at the Waikiki Womb this last Sat and asked why he was doggin' me lately (banishing me to Bilge even). We were going to duel to the death out on the street, each defending the honor of Tiki-Ti (him) and the Tonga Hut (me). We realized we'd only kill each other and leave Big Tiki Dude as last man standing (and the unchallenged voice of DTBC). This would greatly upset the fragile So Ca Tiki "balance of power" so now I consider Boris a strategic ally (even if he is "unreasonable" )
Seriously, it's best to take into account how "new" the person you're replying to is. I've seen some new members pack up their Tikis and leave (as well as erase all of their old posts) after one dramatic incident. Anyone remember DonnaBeach ?? I hope she wasn't an actual relative.
When in doubt use Mr. Smiley Face. He exists for a reason. 
 
 
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GROG Grand Member (first year)
Joined: Jun 21, 2006 Posts: 6174 From: Tujunga
| Posted: 2010-08-04 12:14 pm  Permalink
_________________
GROG miss Tiki-Kate
 
 
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Tipsy McStagger Tiki Socialite
Joined: Nov 21, 2004 Posts: 3388 From: HELL
| Posted: 2010-08-04 12:28 pm  Permalink
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On 2010-08-03 22:56, bigbrotiki wrote:
There was nothing un-nice in Boris' first post, it reads rather matter of fact to me. It is the bane of the internet that everybody takes everything so friggin' personal that nobody dares to say ANYTHING anymore, and everything passes as OK. Vapid.
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i'm just floored that this came out of big bro's mouth......considering the flak i get around here at times for doing exactly that..speaking my mind.
 
 
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GROG Grand Member (first year)
Joined: Jun 21, 2006 Posts: 6174 From: Tujunga
| Posted: 2010-08-04 12:39 pm  Permalink
F#*K YOU Tipsy!!
[ This Message was edited by: GROG 2010-08-04 12:40 ]
 
 
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GROG Grand Member (first year)
Joined: Jun 21, 2006 Posts: 6174 From: Tujunga
| Posted: 2010-08-04 12:40 pm  Permalink
P.S. 
 
 
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Atomic Tiki Punk Tiki Socialite
Joined: Jul 19, 2009 Posts: 4014 From: Costa Misery
| Posted: 2010-08-04 1:13 pm  Permalink
I am just so upset! you all are hurting my feelings,so I am packing it up.
Wait I live here, so all of you guys are going to have to leave..
there's the door, don't slam it on the way out.
I said good day! Sir!
 
 
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Atomic Tiki Punk Tiki Socialite
Joined: Jul 19, 2009 Posts: 4014 From: Costa Misery
| Posted: 2010-08-04 1:16 pm  Permalink
Naaaaaa,who's up for Mai Tai's!
You can come back now!
Guy's.........oh guy's.........guy's?
 
 
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Atomic Tiki Punk Tiki Socialite
Joined: Jul 19, 2009 Posts: 4014 From: Costa Misery
| Posted: 2010-08-04 1:25 pm  Permalink
Hey do we have a page that introduces new members to the ways of Tiki Central?
Tips and etiquette etc. lay of the land & how to survive in the TC wilderness?
maybe we can use one to point new members too?
why is everyone looking at me?
 
 
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bigbrotiki Tiki Socialite
Joined: Mar 25, 2002 Posts: 10561 From: Tiki Island, above the Silverlake
| Posted: 2010-08-04 1:29 pm  Permalink
So if so many folks agree, I trust next time they will not hesitate to offer constructive suggestions when someone mis-posts, without being overly fearful of "sticking their neck out"? 
 
 
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Atomic Tiki Punk Tiki Socialite
Joined: Jul 19, 2009 Posts: 4014 From: Costa Misery
| Posted: 2010-08-04 2:21 pm  Permalink
Death to the mis-posters! I mean yea sure, let's educate those MoFo's
 
 
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bigbrotiki Tiki Socialite
Joined: Mar 25, 2002 Posts: 10561 From: Tiki Island, above the Silverlake
| Posted: 2010-08-04 8:20 pm  Permalink
You know, there's also a certain ratio between posting "real content" and "space-wasting" posts that can can make members look like mis-posters.
 
 
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Atomic Tiki Punk Tiki Socialite
Joined: Jul 19, 2009 Posts: 4014 From: Costa Misery
| Posted: 2010-08-04 8:27 pm  Permalink
I hear you,Sven
I keep up the joking around, I know.....
But the Intro to new members page still might be a good idea, still.
 
 
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bigbrotiki Tiki Socialite
Joined: Mar 25, 2002 Posts: 10561 From: Tiki Island, above the Silverlake
| Posted: 2010-08-04 9:38 pm  Permalink
Problem is if it is not up in the first five posts on General Tiki, they won't see it. There is something about the style of content TC is about here:
http://www.tikiroom.com/tikicentral/bb/about.php,
...and the "what to post where" should be self-explanatory (in MOST cases) by the very simple headers of the different forums. Also, most of the times, mis-posts get accepted if they are among the first 10 a newbie ever did, anyway, which shows tolerance. But if none ever get corrected, it shows indifference -which is a sign of devolution of a web forum
 
 
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woofmutt Tiki Socialite
Joined: Mar 26, 2002 Posts: 2584 From: Seattilite Telstar
| Posted: 2010-08-04 10:09 pm  Permalink
Give up and give in.
_________________ Attribution is the sincerest form of flattery.
 
 
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