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apology to the ohana
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Joined: Oct 05, 2005
Posts: 1401
From: sackatomato
Posted: 2008-10-21 1:44 pm   Permalink

i want to apologize to all of you for my meltdown. like all of you, i come to tc for art i like, the sense of community and to make friends. so i'm very regretful for alienating so many people. i've spent the last 2 days trying to mend the fences i tore down. i'm not trying to excuse my poor behavior, but we had to put our beloved little dog to sleep last tuesday, ironically because of cancer. then the bowl fiasco happened and i flipped out. i'm taking a long hard look at my actions and i hope you'll accept my apology. i sent this apology to hanford and several people who posted their objections to my posts. hanford replied that others who didn't post were also dismayed and gave me the option of posting this apology in the ohana forum. i hope the ohana who received my apology pms don't think i'm insincere because i wrote kind of a form letter. i absolutely mean every word. peace and mahalo, bullet


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Tipsy McStagger
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Joined: Nov 21, 2004
Posts: 3681
From: HELL
Posted: 2008-10-21 2:07 pm   Permalink

well...you've always been alright by me....i accept your apology but i wish i knew what you were apologizing for...seems i must have missed the meltdown...sounds like it was a good one...

oh well...i can't read every damn thread all the time...

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Tiki Socialite

Joined: Oct 05, 2005
Posts: 1401
From: sackatomato
Posted: 2008-10-21 5:25 pm   Permalink

to the folks who have sent messages of forgiveness to me, i am humbled and deeply touched. i'm sure some people will never forgive me for my insensitivity and stupidity, and i don't blame them. to those of you who do; mahalo, mahalo, mahalo. i'm glad i'm not so dense that i can't admit my mistakes and learn from them. thanks tipsy, but i'm sure not gonna point you towards the thread.

bangin' my slit gong drum until the cops come!

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Jungle Trader
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Joined: Jan 04, 2003
Posts: 3755
From: Trader's Jungle Outpost, Turlock, Ca.
Posted: 2008-10-21 7:29 pm   Permalink

You are forgiven. Now breathe, don't think, just breathe.

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Joined: Jun 21, 2006
Posts: 7200
From: Tujunga
Posted: 2008-10-21 11:51 pm   Permalink

GROG forgive you, but not Tipsy.


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Tiki Trav
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Joined: Sep 25, 2006
Posts: 639
From: NSW Central Coast, Australia
Posted: 2008-10-22 03:29 am   Permalink

bullet rules

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Joined: Jun 10, 2004
Posts: 4027
From: Reseda, calif.
Posted: 2008-10-22 06:27 am   Permalink

It was just a bad moment and it passed quickly, we understand.

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Joined: Apr 03, 2002
Posts: 5304
From: Hapa Haole Hideaway, TN
Posted: 2008-10-22 06:56 am   Permalink

We are not all supposed to forgive regardless, but when someone changes their ways, or is aiming to, we should. Then asking forgiveness is really a promise to change. Granting forgiveness is then an act of hope and belief.

Always fight as brothers, not as enemies. You want to be able to shake hands at the end.

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Tiki Socialite

Joined: May 18, 2004
Posts: 2722
From: The Exotic Port of REDONDO BEACH, CA
Posted: 2008-10-22 09:25 am   Permalink

Apologizing to the TC Ohana is nice, but the one who really deserves the apology is Tiki Meli. Hopefully you did that too, regardless of whether or not you felt she was wrong.



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Joined: Nov 12, 2002
Posts: 7917
From: Huntikington Beach
Posted: 2008-10-24 7:34 pm   Permalink

De Ja Vu!

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Tiki Socialite

Joined: Jan 09, 2004
Posts: 10397
From: Port Saint Lucie, Florida
Posted: 2008-10-25 04:59 am   Permalink

Put your mind at ease Bullet, I'm sure everyone is fine by now. An apology is always difficult to do and most of them that are Needed never get posted. You are The man, with Respect!
Really sorry to hear about your pet having to be put away, people who don't understand have never had pets or kids, same difference. Just Sorry!
It's still nice having you back around.

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Billy the Crud
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Joined: Jun 02, 2007
Posts: 996
From: San Diego
Posted: 2008-11-05 03:33 am   Permalink

Grace and I just lost our little Jack Russell "Shorty" to liver cancer, after bringing this family joy and companionship for close to 15 years. My heart goes out to you, man. Losing a close, beloved dog has the same impact as losing a human family member. I had my meltdown on Holloween, but managed to get too drunk to type, thank god.
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"96 tears from 96 eyes".....RIP Lux Interior

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